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The Best & Worst Books for Healthy Christian Relationships

I recently asked my Instagram community about the books they loved (and hated!) for healthy Christian relationships. I’ve complied the answers into this list, which has been updated once or twice since then.

It’s important to know I’m not personally endorsing any of the books mentioned below. I’ve read only a handful, good and bad. Secondarily, I found that most of the authors suggested are white males, who as you may guess, do not hold a monopoly on healthy, Christian relationships or great sex. If you have suggestions, please let me know so I can add them to the list.

Which Christian dating/marriage books have either helped or misled you?

Best Books for Christian Relationships

Books that Received Mixed Reviews

Worst Books for Healthy Christian Relationships

  • I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris
  • Boy Meets Girl by Joshua Harris
  • Emotional Purity by Heather Arnel Paulsen
  • When God Writes Your Love Story by Eric and Leslie Ludy
  • Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman’s Soul by John and Stasi Eldredge
  • Dateable by Hayley DiMarco and Justin Lookadoo
  • Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood by John Piper and Wayne Grudem
  • Passion and Purity by Elisabeth Elliot
  • Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
  • Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage by Kevin Leman
  • Before You Meet Prince Charming: A Guide to Radiant Purity by Sarah Mally
  • Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together by Mark and Grace Driscoll

If you agree or disagree with any of the characterizations above, I’d love to hear! Obviously, there’s a lot more to say on these subjects that these few authors can cover, but it’s a start. Knowing some of the authors listed, some books most likely disagree in certain ways.

I asked this question with purity culture in mind. I’m curious to hear if you experienced this growing up and if there were teachings or books that promoted this in your church or religious context. 

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